I met my hubby may 2013, by August he asked me to get pregnant for him, I asked what next he said until then. I got pregnant then we got married. Prior to the wedding he was acting strange, when I asked he would say its the preparation for the wedding that is weighing him down that he would change. 2days after the wedding I had miscarriage, the experience was so painful especially while the blood was being sucked out. I don't even wish for this kind of experience for my enemy
Weeks later my hubby attitude changed, I crave for his attention, no romance. While he is away at work I send him text message he would never reply, even when I call him he would sound rude. Sometimes at night he would be awake lost in thought, whenever I ask him what the problem is he would say nothing.
He's deperate to have children and I haven't taken in ever since then. My marriage is crumbling. What do I do? How is it my fault that I miscarried my first baby? How do I avoid such reoccurence? What do I do to make my hubby happy again. He's no longer the man I used to know or could it be that he never loved me from day one? All these questions are driving me crazy. Any reasonable suggestion from you guys?
Do you want to hear the bitter truth? You were despirate to get married and that was why you married that man without getting to know him first. He on the other hand did not marry you for love, he married you cos he was desperate to have a child. Your marriage is based on conditional love and that is why you are having issues now. I would advice you to remain prayerful. If you dont end up getting pregnant on time.dont be surprised if he decide to impregnate another woman outside. You guys can go for councelling. Sit him down in the middle of the night, beg him and let him know how u feel. Who knows? He may have a change of attitude
ReplyDelete'm married for almost 6 months and I used to love my husband before our marriage, and I fought for him. Now, I'm very depressed, I feel very sad. I stopped loving him because I think he's not the man I used to know, there're a lot of things I didnt know in him and shocked me ! I'm pregnant and I feel very old, fat and sad !!
ReplyDeleteMarriage to the wrong soul will mess you up so badly that picking up the pieces can be frustrating because you will have the slippery help of regret to hinder the healing, so make up your mind now, forget about what others think, too many idiot busy bodies in our lives will stick their retarded noses where it doesn't belong if you give them an inch of allowance.
ReplyDeleteIts not too late to get out of that marriage, marriage is to be enjoyed and not endured. Wish u the best
Its probably you have done sometin wrong. This may be the reason for his actions. Try ask him and be very prayerful. Your marriage is not crumbling, this is jst a trying time for you and a warning dt you've been far frm God. Life without christ is full of crises
ReplyDeleteSeek the face of God over issue like ds. Some people wuld only end up advising u wrongly
ReplyDeleteMy sister,pray. Your husband should understand that its god that gives children, it takes two to tango,so the two of you should go on your knees;but come to think of it,you got married only last year so why the hurry?There is something wrong somewhere,so pray hard.....................
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