My name is Sharon, 30yrs old and I got engaged to my boyfriend on Vals day. Unfortunately I need your advice on the best way to dump him fast before he drags me to the alter.
The day he proposed, all I could feel was disgust. I was crying and he thought I was happy. Meanwhile, I was mourning the money and trips I knew would be over once I said no. I collected the
ring there cos he invited people and I didnt want to disgrace him.
Its not that I'm cheating on him or I don't love him enough to marry him. I love him but can't just end up marrying this man
ring there cos he invited people and I didnt want to disgrace him.
Its not that I'm cheating on him or I don't love him enough to marry him. I love him but can't just end up marrying this man
Infact, No amount of money would have made me marry him.
We actually met few years back and I must say he's the best guy I ever dated all my life. He treats me like a Queen and he has been very generous. I came about a revelation concerning him some weeks back and up till now I'm still in shock !
When we met, he told me he's divorced and accused his wife of infidelity. Reason why he sent her packing. Because I loved him, I believed all he said without verifying . Good thing is that, they were not legally married yet so this made it easier for him to divorce her.
I never knew he was lying to me all the while. I mean, we've dated for close to three years and he never for once told me the real truth why they got separated. I got to know the truth through his wife's cousin who happened to be my friend while in high school
Here is how she narrated the story
He got married and divorced after a year and some months cos he was dating his wife's younger sister, got her pregnant and she had an abortion, then sent her to the UK for Masters. That was after he had been forgiven for sleeping with his distant cousin that came to help out in their house. This man is worse than a dog. Tufiakwa!
The wife had to pack out of the house and dumped his silly ass. Now tell me, is that the kind of man I'll end up my life with? A leopard can never change its Spots. There is no guarantee that he won't do even worse to me. And for him to have lied about it, it means he doesn't have good intentions and such people are very dangerous. Only God knows what he's already doing at my back. This guy can kill.
I don't know how to break up with him. My intention is to keep collecting his money while I get myself a better man. I was heartbroken initially but I've gotten over it now. The only problem now is this proposal of a thing. This man is in a hurry to marry me and I can't just go ahead with the marriage. I can keep dating him but marriage is a No No No for me! I haven't told him about the revelations yet cos I know he'll only end up begging and asking for forgiveness. I can't stand it. I'm too emotional and I may end up pitying him.
I want to silently dump his ass without him even noticing it. What is the best way to go about it ? I have collected alot of money from this man, I can't just open my mouth and say it's over. He'll roast me alive
What do you guys suggest I do? I'm about to lose my mind.
Yours Sharon
You knw what you are? You are asewo kobo Kobo. At 30, you are still dating a man for his money. You realized u can't marry someone and instead of u to take to ur heels, u decided to continue collecting money frm him and when a man decides to treat ur fuck up, you'll say its domestic violence. Bear ur own cross, I have no advice to give to u
ReplyDeleteADERONKE... Is lady need your advice not insult. In this your blog. you need to control your self and advice diligently please...
DeleteMy advice for this lady is to think twice cos you are getting old. Take a step to settle down and stop dating for money.
May God help you.
You amaze me with ur comment. Does it look like I'm the one who made that comment? Is the comment posted under my name?
Delete@Mr Kayworld, how can u attribute an anonymous comment to someone's name. Aderonke made a post at 5.21am, someone commented on it at 9.31am and you claimed its from Her. She always comment under her name so pls, becareful next time before accusing someone wrongly.
ReplyDeleteBack to the matter, madam, this is a very simple matter. I can teach u how to eat ur cake and have it. Tell him a pastor told u that he's not ur destinied hubby but would still like to continue with the relationship. By so doing, una go turn to friends with benefit, no strings attached. By the time u get someone else, he'll understand and let u move on in peace.
But u don old o, so repent from this hide and seek game ok? All da best
On the contrary, i'll advice you seek the face of God over this issue. He may have repented from his evil ways. How sure are u that these accusations are even true about this man. Why dont u verify frm him directly. May God lead u right
ReplyDeleteYou are not being fair, after sucking the man dry, now you want to dump him. God dey o
ReplyDeleteThe man my be under a spell. Take him for deliverance and get married to him thereafter if truly you love him
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